The Story of Carson & Dean

We're backkkkkkk

2010-11-07T18:20:00.000-08:00

Not goodbye forever, but a leave of absence

2010-08-23T18:14:00.000-07:00

I started this blog to document Carson and Dean's life for Eric and myself, as well as any of our family and friends who were interested. Its been so fun to update the blog with the twins milestones and events. I have loved all the emails, comments, and all the people that have complimented the blog! Nice to know that the kids have so many fans! However, my last post, was 4th of July! WHY?? The truth is, there is just NOT ENOUGH time!!! AHHH!!! Carson and Dean started walking a couple of months ago, we dropped to only one nap a day, and I started my own side business; touchy tags. During nap time, if I am not doing laundry, cleaning the house, cooking, or eating my first meal of the day and staring into space regrouping, I'm doing work for touchy tags. At night, I always think to upload pictures and update the blog, but I am usually relaxing and down for the count early! So, with that, marguliestwinturtles.blogspot is taking time off. (Clearly, no announcement needed since there hasn't been any post in over 6 weeks).

In closing, here's the latest on Carson and Dean.

1. They are "blabbing" all of the time! They say "uh-oh" 200 x a day and "cracker" 700 x a day. Dean loves to say his version of the word "bubbles" and Carson sings / hums.
2. Ask them where their belly buttons are.
3. Same with nose and head.
4. We just returned from a week in Hilton Head with my family. They LOVED the beach!
5. They say "ma ma" all of the time! (May not sound like a big deal, but they are 16 months old - - I waited a long time for that)
6. They love Elmo.
7. Dean LOVES Meurice. Carson, could care less.
8. Carson is biting now. Correction, Carson is biting Dean now.
9. Dean shakes his head 'NO' alot. (Can't wait until he says it . . . )
10. Eric and I have started to have "dates" with the kids. This past Sunday I took Carson to the pool for some girl time. Eric took Dean out to lunch and then shopping for cologne. (I think Carson and I had the better gig)
11. We start our first gymnastics class tomorrow. Tiny Tumblers
12. One more ear infection and I am going to lose it.
13. We just visited the Durham Life & Science Museum - - they loved it!
14. We've spent 1 - 2 days a week at the pool with a "mothers helper" this summer.
15. They climb up and down the stairs. My arms are enjoying the break.
16. They love to dance. Its precious!
17. 7:30 pm is bedtime. They love going to bed and still are the best sleepers. Thank you sleep GOD!
18. They are the healthiest 16 months old EVER. These 30 week old preemies continue to amaze me and can do anything.
19. To answer the daily question "do you want more kids" . . ." Wouldn't you like to know"!
20. For as tired, dirty, and crazy I am at the end of each day. Being home with them everyday has been the best decision of my life.

Goodbye for now!!!!

PS - - I appreciate your support in spreading the word of touchy tags. www.touchytags.com

JUST A LITTLE BIT OF WHAT WE'VE BEEN UP TO

2010-07-07T16:51:00.000-07:00

MY 4TH OF JULY TEAM

DADDY AND HIS PEACE MAKER

DEAN LOVING SOME SAUCE AND VEGGIES

PLAYING WITH SOME NEIGHBORS IN THE BABY POOL

CARSON WENT DOWN FOR HER NAP WITH A SHIRT AND PANTS ON - - AND WOKE UP LIKE THIS! ONE HER FINER MOMENTS!

ROAD TRIP TO BALTIMORE FOR BRAD & SHARON'S WEDDING! WEREN'T IN THE HOTEL 15 MINUTES BEFORE THESE TWO TOILET PAPERED THE ROOM!

Carson Belle is off

2010-07-07T16:12:00.000-07:00

A few of the highlights

2010-06-16T14:05:00.000-07:00

CHEESE!!!!!

ONE BIG BITE

HAPPY BIRTHDAY T-POP (thank you Gran, Spike & Colleen for babysitting)

SIPPING CHAMPAGNE IN WINE COUNTRY!

MEMBERS OF THE DDD CLASS OF 2003 - Reuniting in Wine Country!

On your mark, get set,

2010-06-13T17:29:00.000-07:00

GO!!!!

THERE ISN'T ENOUGH TIME

2010-06-13T16:54:00.000-07:00

. . . to get everything done, I need to get done, AND blog! Sorry to disappoint my millions of readers. (ha, ha). Eric and I have been incredibly busy with the good and the bad. The passing of Eric's grandfather, followed by our vacation to wine country and Austin, back to home where I've been spending any free minute (aka C & D nap times) doing touchy tags business, and then doing pool excursions with the kids and friends, and this weekend celebrating Mimi's Bat-Mitzvah.

So, here's where I am at. I could upload 1 million photos. Some from our day at our neighbor's lake house, our time at the pool, and C & D's week in Austin when Eric & I were in Sonoma and San Francisco. They had a great time at Nonna & T-Pop's, celebrating T-Pop's Birthday, and we had a wonderful time visiting wineries, drinking an abundance wine, seeing old friends, and just having a good time. Can you visualize them?? Does that count??!

I also have a video I need to upload and that is of . . . DEAN WALKING!!!!!!!!!! Our son is WALKING!!! He took his first steps in Austin and is now all about it. He looks absolutely adorable and has that look of "even I can't believe I am doing this". We are loving it!! Carson, is close behind. She is now constantly wanting to "walk" around holding onto our fingers. She's trying to put this thing together. Carson is always motivated by praise - - I think she's seeing us cheer for him and thinking - - "I better figure this out because I want some of that"!!!

www.touchytags.com

2010-05-26T07:52:00.000-07:00

touchytags.com

2010-05-24T06:53:00.000-07:00

This WEDNESDAY touchytags.com will launch!!!

This has been my project for almost a year. I have designed CAR SEAT AND STROLLER TAGS THAT HELP KEEP OTHERS RESPECTFUL OF YOUR LITTLE ONE’S SPACE. They help protect your baby from unwanted germs in a fun and fashionable way! They are round rubber tags that come in two color options - - PINK or BLUE. They are two sided, with one side saying "LOVE, not germs". The other "Are Your Hands Clean". Touchy tags can fasten to any car-seat, stroller, baby carrier, and piece of home baby equipment with ribbons. Each ribbon contains durable Velcro snaps that allow for easy attachment!

These are adorable tags that politely ask others to not touch your newborn. There are too many germs lingering at the grocery store, mall, restaurants, etc. The last thing a new mom needs, is a sick baby.

If you are expecting or know someone who is, check out touchytags.com on WEDNESDAY and take a look!

Carson's homecoming anniversary!

2010-05-21T07:28:00.000-07:00

Carson came home May 15th!!! I have been way to busy to stop and blog! Carson came home 2 days after Dean. Thank goodness she did because those 2 days we could only get up to the NICU once a day. I was used to sitting there all day with them, but now that I had Dean, we couldn't. Carson was a very serious baby and has since turned into one crazy lady! She loves to "talk" and repeat things and smiles all day! She follows Dean around and is just a beautiful baby girl!! Carson -- WE LOVE YOU!

Anniversary of Dean's Homecoming

2010-05-13T07:52:00.000-07:00

May 13, 2009 was the day Dean came home! He weighed 5lbs 2oz and had spent his first 38 days of life in the NICU. We were so excited to finally have him home. It was an exciting and sad day. We had 1 coming home and were leaving our baby girl behind. Luckily, it was for only 2 days. Dean came home - - and we just stared at him. The next morning we woke up and took him back to the hospital . . . but not as a patient, as a visitor to see Carson. Today, Dean is a healthy and ACTIVE 13 month old baby. Dean, we love you!

My 1st ( technically, 2nd ) Mothers Day!

2010-05-12T07:08:00.000-07:00

Last year Carson and Dean were still in the hospital for Mothers Day, where Eric & I spent the day at the NICU with them. So, this year, was our first Mothers Day as a healthy, happy family! All we wanted was to share this day with us and our children. Eric handled breakfast on his own, while I caught some extra zzz's and then we took a morning walk. After their morning nap we headed out to Vollmer Farm for a picnic and Strawberry Picking!! It was so much fun! I loved picking and the kids loved eating! It was messy! It was the perfect day, exactly what I wanted, time spent with my family for my 1st Mothers Day.

A special Happy Mothers Day as well to Nonna, Mimi, & Gran! We love you!

Date Night

2010-05-01T08:16:00.001-07:00

Mexican Food + Eric + Lauren + Cupcakes = Date Night

Outside Fun

2010-05-01T08:08:00.000-07:00

With the weather warming up C & D are spending alot of time outdoors with their friends. Last Friday there was a cul-de-sac gathering. The kids had a great time, while the adults enjoyed Happy Hour!

I HIT THE TRIFECTA!!!

2010-04-16T17:40:00.000-07:00

And here's how the story goes . . .

Wednesday night the kids were in their highchairs for dinner, like every other night . . . until Carson vomited everywhere. (she's ok, by the way). Lovely. Usually I wait until Eric gets home to do their baths, but this little problem, presented a change in plans. With the mess at hand, I stripped Carson down in the kitchen, left the mess there, and got them upstairs and in their bath. Luckily, they were all bathed and clean when Carson decides to double the fun that evening and take a GIANT #2 in the bathtub! Dean was incredibly intrigued with the new "bath toy" so I had to quickly get them OUT OF THE TUB. I snatched Dean first, wrapped him in a towel, and almost tossed him on the floor so I could now turn around and grab the guilty one and get her out of the water. While I was getting Carson, Dean wiggled out of the towel, and pulled his naked self up holding onto the potty. He gave Carson and I a sly grin and started peeing on the floor. And there it was, that one single given moment, I had puke waiting for downstairs in the kitchen, a poop in the tub, and pee on the floor. That my friends, was the trifecta.

BEAT THAT.

The Cool Kids

2010-04-14T16:50:00.000-07:00

We saw the idea for these swings in Austin in Nonna & T-Pop's neighborhood. Our yard isn't big enough to house a swing-set, so we thought this would work for us too! Aunt Nut bought them for the kids for their birthday and we hung them up over the weekend. We simply hang them up when they are using them and take them down when we're done. Needless to say, C & D are serious trendsetters. Check out those stickers. We don't mess around!

Birthday Tour 2010

2010-04-13T07:39:00.000-07:00

3 parties later, 3 cupcakes later, a taste of ice cream, and Carson and Dean are officially ONE! This past Saturday they had some of their friends over to round out the Birthday Party Tour! Thank you to Cole, Blake & Cole, Haydn, Charlie, Matthew, Caden, Landon, Caden, Jacob, Reese, and Leila for coming and for your wonderful presents! Carson and Dean enjoyed ripping into them. During the party the parents decided it was cocktail time, so we took the kiddos outside and lined them up in their Radio Flyer Wagons! Check out the train below! Carson and Dean (and mommy and daddy) are so lucky to have made such great friends here. To all of our wonderful friends and neighbors, thank you! We look forward to more get togethers!

CARSON AND DEAN TURN ONE

2010-04-05T18:40:00.000-07:00

.....literally an hour from now to the minute. I sit here at 9:42pm, our Carson Belle arrived at 10:42pm and Dean at 10:43pm. Exactly one hour away from being EXACTLY ONE YEAR AGO. Mind blowing. All you parents out there, I am sure you'd agree that time flies. For all my friends who are new mothers or those expecting, cherish and enjoy every single thing big or small. Time flies by faster with your own children than any other period of my life up to this point. I hold up their preemie / NB or 3 month clothing and can't believe they were ever that small. I can't remember how we got to this point. Carson and Dean arrived 10 weeks early and spent 6 weeks in the NICU. These next 6 weeks I will try to remind myself of that time, everyday. When I am tired (daily), chasing them (again, daily), putting all the tupperware back into the kitchen cabinets after they've spread it out across our entire downstairs (you guessed it, daily), and when they are making me laugh out loud I will sit back and think how Eric & I can't imagine our lives without the two of them. Happy 1st Birthday Carson and Dean. (As for us, Mommy & Daddy, we can go ahead and pat ourselves on the back. So far, so good . . . .)

Wilson

2010-04-04T17:08:00.000-07:00

This Easter weekend, was incredibly busy and so much fun! After our park day on Friday, we had Reese's birthday party at The Little Gym on Saturday afternoon, followed by a neighborhood Easter Egg Hunt. We had a great time at the birthday party, Carson and Dean enjoyed all the activities The Little Gym had to offer. Eric and I felt like we needed a nap when we got home! Dean enjoyed teasing us with his "I can almost" walk using some bars. Carson, on the other hand, fell in love with a soccer ball. They became great friends, very similar to Tom Hanks and his buddy Wilson in Castaway. Carson is all about having dolls and babies right now, and quite frankly, that soccer ball was her new little baby.

Happy Birthday Reese! Thanks for a great birthday party!

It Truly Was A GOOD FRIDAY

2010-04-04T16:48:00.000-07:00

Eric had the day off, so we decided to have a family day. Based on some of our friends reviews, we ventured over to Joyner Park, (which is new) in Wake Forest. It was so beautiful and nice. We packed a picnic and of course, the Radio Flyer Wagon. We wheeled C & D around then set up on a blanket. They ate their lunch like a big boy & girl and had fun just playing on their wagon and on the blanket. It was a very nice (and hot) day! We really enjoyed it and will definitely be back!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

2010-03-28T07:53:00.000-07:00

Party # 1 of 3

2010-03-28T07:43:00.000-07:00

After our trip to Palm Springs, Nonna & I flew to Austin with Carson & Dean on Tuesday (which is officially not fun at this point). We've had a great trip here in Austin! We've gone shopping, strolling in the Radio Flyer wagon T-Pop bought, gone out to dinners, rode the train at the park, and just had fun visiting everyone. Yesterday Nonna & T-Pop hosted a 1st Birthday party for Carson & Dean at the UT Golf Club. We had SO much fun. The kids loved their cupcakes and enjoyed playing with the big kids! Here are just a few pics of our great day with our almost ONE YEAR OLD BIRTHDAY BOY & GIRL. . .

One year ago today,

2010-03-17T07:11:00.000-07:00

was the day. The dreaded day. The most awful day of my life. I didn't even realize this until this morning while I was sipping my coffee, watching Carson and Dean devour their blueberries and waffles. This exact day last year Eric left for a work trip to Las Vegas around 6:30 am, I was 28 weeks pregnant. I would be by myself for only 24 hours as my mom was headed to Raleigh the following morning to help my big self out. That's it, ONE DAY by myself. Well, all hell broke loose. Around 8:00 am I felt "off" and phoned the DR to explain my symptoms. Didn't think it was an emergency as I didn't go in to see the DR until 2:00 pm. When I got there I was 3 centimeters dilated. The DR told me to drive myself to the hospital as quick as I could. I was about to crash off the road, I called Eric screaming in complete fear and panic, and reached Rex hospital. I was hooked up to all kinds of machines and monitors for the babies, and given steroids to help their lungs. A few minutes later, I was 4 centimeters dilated. I was told I was delivering these babies today. An ambulance was on its way from Wake Med, because they had a Level 3 NICU and it would be better to deliver there. Alone, by myself, in an ambulance, going to deliver these babies 12 weeks early, and Eric wasn't there. I still remember all of this like it were yesterday. Eric did hop on the next flight back to Raleigh and met me at Wake Med around 1:00 am, happy to still find I hadn't delivered. This was the start of a 12 day stay / fight to keep these babies inside. Unbelievable. Right? I am not crazy, this is unbelievable!

Well, Eric left today for this annual business trip, this year in Palm Springs, CA. My mom is headed to Raleigh today to babysit Carson and Dean, and I am out of here tomorrow to join him in California!!!! My Gran will also be here Friday to help Nonna tag team our wild pair. As for me, I plan on sunbathing, working out, and living at the spa. Can't believe a year has past since that scary day! Now we have beautiful, wonderful, healthy, crazy, on-the-go, scary almost ONE YEAR OLDS!!!!!

MMMMMMMmmmmm Good!!!!!!

2010-03-16T07:23:00.000-07:00

Alright class,

2010-03-16T07:19:00.001-07:00

can anyone show me the proper way to use a sippy cup???

* Good job Carson! Any activity in the highchair you've seemed to master quite well!

* Oh, Bubba . . . almost!!!!

Who Needs Cleaning People . . . .

2010-03-07T12:45:00.000-08:00

When you have Carson and Dean??? I have put those two to work. They do a pretty good job! Next project, mopping floors!

Mommy's Lil Shopper

2010-03-03T17:31:00.000-08:00

He's THISCLOSE to walking. Soon. Oh, so soon . . .

(Sorry for the sideways view. I have learned a lesson here folks.)

Sun Shiny Day

2010-02-25T07:10:00.000-08:00

Raleigh had some great weather this past weekend! Saturday we took the kids on a walk to the park and let them re-visit their old friends, the swings. Sunday, Mimi & Grandpa baby-sat while Eric & I had a lunch day at Cameron Village, some shopping (for me - - yay), followed by us hitting some golf balls at the driving range (for him)! Clearly, everyone was happy! It was SO SO SO nice for Eric & I to get out for a few hours without the kids.

Enjoying the swings!

Mr Meurice

2010-02-16T13:34:00.000-08:00

Our # 1 blog reader, Daniel Kaman, has requested an update on big brother Meurice. Now, I too agree, that many others would like to know what exactly he has been up to. Meurice used to love to lay down next to the babies when they were real little. But now that they can crawl (toward him specifically) he pretty much dodges them. They crawl in a room, he walks to another. Unless of course a meal has just been completed, then he gets as close as he can to get some sweet leftover kisses. Meurice, just wait until they can walk. . .

NAWlins kind of weekend . . .

2010-02-16T07:02:00.001-08:00

Two weeks ago I guess you could say we celebrated New Orleans the WHOLE weekend. On Saturday we went to a Mardi Gras party at Matt & Katie's house. While Carson and Dean didn't savor any gumbo, they did wear some beads. It was so nice to spend time with our friends and their kids. Then there was Superbowl Sunday. Although we were rooting on the Colts, we watched the New Orleans Saints bring home a victory at our neighbors Superbowl party! Eric and I carted the kids around in the bjorns so we were hands free to grab a quick bite and a beer. (sidenote, Eric & I (really me) won squares two quarter in a row. Nothing like winning a few bucks off your neighbors)!!

* Carson, Dean, and Jacob * (where are Carson and Dean's beads)?????

"MOM-preneur"

2010-02-09T07:01:00.000-08:00

Check out this article from the Wall Street Journal

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704254604574614052425441542.html

This article is about several moms who have started very successful baby food businesses. These are all mothers, who were presented with an unmet need with their own children, saw a vision, and made it happen!

It is very inspiring and motivating to me. I've only been out of work and home with C & D since January 1, but I am already in full-swing into a brand new project. On my own! I have been working on this since November and am ironing out the fine details before the launch of my website and the introduction of my new product. I am excited to be doing something that I have always to do . . . BE MY OWN boss! Eric has been incredibly helpful and supportive. I could not have come this far without him. Just a few more loose strings to tie and we'll be ready.

I can't wait to unveil my secret to you all!!!!

So, please STAY TUNED!!!!

Dear Eric, THANK YOU!!!

2010-02-03T18:28:00.000-08:00

As I mentioned in a previous post, Eric & I celebrated our 3 year anniversary January 14th. With my parents being in town, Eric planned a wonderful night away. Carson and Dean had a slumber party at home with Nonna & T-Pop while Eric surprised me with a night away at The Umstead Hotel & Spa. It was wonderful! We enjoyed the spa, dinner at the bar watching the snow come down and even slept in a little Saturday morning. Thank you Eric for a great surprise AND a big thank you for Nonna & T-Pop for watching Carson and Dean.

NY Times Article

2010-02-03T07:37:00.000-08:00

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/25/health/25trau.html?_r=1

Interesting article around PTSD for parents who've had a child in the NICU. Our friend Emily & Jason also experienced having a child in the NICU following their birth. While our stories are different, we both relate the birth of our children to the additional time each of them spent in the NICU. Eric & I definitely did not experience anything as serious as this article states - - thankfully - - but we certainly have a complete understanding of it. For the rest of my life, I will never get the sound of those heart monitors out of my head. They would "DING" every 30 seconds those first few days Carson and Dean were in there. I used to lay in bed at night still hearing the ring in my head. Thanks Emily for posting to your blog, I was happy to read. Also, a good reminder that the annual March of Dimes Walk is coming in April to a city near you. If you are in Raleigh and interested in walking, Eric and I are going to be putting a team together. The date is Saturday April 24th.

WINTER STORM ADVISORY

2010-01-31T06:58:00.000-08:00

The snow found its way to Raleigh, I couldn't be happier about it!!!! Growing up in Connecticut, snow is something I am very used to and think is so pretty and fun! Carson and Dean joined the other kids in the neighborhood for sledding and enjoyed T-Pop and Nonna pulling them around. SO glad T-Pop and Nonna were here to share in their first snow!!!!

MUST HAVE ITEM!!!

2010-01-31T06:48:00.000-08:00

Fellow mothers and expectant mothers - - you need this! Carson and Dean received these booster seats as gifts when they were born. We are so caught up with them being newborns, you never think of all the things you will need as they get bigger and bigger. These booster seats are great. Carson and Dean are still taking 4 bottles a day, with 3 meals of food as well. They are still too small and unsteady for most restaurant highchairs. Not to mention, they have to then eat their food off of the table tops which are hard to reach and are such a mess. With the booster seats, they are lightweight and easy to travel with, snap right on to the chairs, have a tray they can eat off, and have a toy snap in that keeps them busy and happy. Dining out is much more manageable now. Eric and I are actually able to eat without having one or both of them on our laps!!!

The Art Project

2010-01-21T07:04:00.001-08:00

Sorry, yes, here is "The Art Project" that Whitney and I worked on for their bathroom. I posted this in the past, their bathroom "theme" is Dr. Seuss - - mainly ONE FISH, TWO FISH -- but Dr. Seuss in general. The curtain, towels, and accessories are all from Pottery Barn Kids. From there, I needed to get some things on the wall. So, there are three new additions. . .

** Whitney and I did this Dr. Seuss alphabet board. We bought a large canvas, decorated it with fabric and ribbons, and went to town! Its fun and looks great over the potty! **

** My sister in law Courtney is a fantastic artist. Check out these unbelievable paintings she did! They are exact! **

** I painted this lovely little fish at Anna's birthday party two weeks ago! We had a great time at her birthday party and Carson and Dean have a new item in their bathroom from it! **

Aunt Laughter

2010-01-19T06:59:00.000-08:00

As I mentioned in an earlier post from Christmas, Carson just thinks Aunt Whitney is so funny! She laughs just looking at her! Whitney came to visit this past weekend. It was a nice, relaxing weekend. We made Sangria & Tapas, took the babies on walks (not after the Sangria), went to Chapel Hill for an outing, and worked on art project for Carson and Dean's bathroom. Thanks for your help Aunt Whitney. Its always fun when you visit, so please come back soon!!!

5 Days Late

2010-01-19T06:55:00.000-08:00

Eric,

Happy 3 Year Anniversary!!! Can you believe it? 7 1/2 years together and 3 years married?! Together we've done it all, had some fun and laughed along the way, and are truly a great team. This past year brought us our greatest gifts, Carson and Dean. They make us better, tired, happier, more stressed, and give us more love than either of us knew we could have. Here's to 97 more years together . . .

I love you.

PS. Hawaii next year?? Just an idea. . .

We are 9 months old!!!

2010-01-10T06:19:00.000-08:00

Where has time gone???

9 month facts:

* Dean is crawling - - EVERYWHERE! He started this right after Thanksgiving. He also just learned to pull himself up on the coffee table, couch, drawers, everything!!

* Carson weighs 17 lbs 3 oz, Dean weighs 18 lbs 8 oz

* We are introducing real foods. Carson is all about it. Dean just cries with confusion. They've had cheerios, pizza, lots of fruits & veggies that I've steamed and roasted, bagels etc.

* They are in the bath together and out of the baby bathtub. It is alot of fun! Water is everywhere!

* They are both currently battling bad colds. Sweet Carson is even on a nebulizer every 6 hours :(

* They both babble lots and really look like they are trying to tell us something very important.

* Cribs have been dropped since they pull themselves up - -ahh!!

Ringing in the New Year ...

2010-01-10T06:03:00.000-08:00

New Years Eve we had our dear friends, Daniel & Abby, come and visit from Chicago. Carson & Dean (and Meurice) loved having new friends to play with! We had such a great, laid-back weekend. We spent New Years Eve together with friends downtown for dinner. Abby & I bailed on the group when they decided to go to the bars and instead rang in New Years in my living room with the babysitter!!! We spent the weekend taking C & D to the park, watching The Hangover 14 times, cooking and eating, Eric took them to Chapel Hill for lunch, and Mimi & Grandpa baby-sat so we could get 1 more dinner out together.

Uncle Daniel & Aunt Abby - - COME BACK, WE MISS YOU!!!

NEW JOB!

2010-01-04T06:12:00.000-08:00

Today, Monday January 4th (is my best friend Meredith's birthday), but it is also a brand new day and chapter in my life and the lives of Eric, Carson & Dean.

I am officially a STAY-AT-HOME MOM!

I gave my notice right before the holidays and today is the day. I could write a million words on the back and forth of this decision, but for those of you who are mothers, you understand. Part of you wants to be home full-time, part of you actually enjoys your job and wants to be there, the financial sacrifices etc etc etc. The economy finally caught up with my company and I feel like I am stepping away at a good time. I am very grateful to have Eric's 110% support and encouragement. My kids are only young once and I want to see and do everything with them. I just couldn't get the thought out of my head, having someone else tell me they took their first step or this or that. Carson and Dean had a terrific nanny! (Natalie, if you're reading this, we miss you and good luck with the new job)! So, this was never about us worrying about the care they were receiving, but more for me to have no regrets later on in life about missing out. With that, my suits are hung and tucked away. Bring on the sneakers and scrunchies!!!! In all honesty, I am very much a career oriented person. I am embracing this opportunity and time with my children. I have many ideas and plans for myself professionally in the future and will absolutely pursue those, when the time is right.

Sincerely,

Lauren Margulies
COO of Margulies Incorporated

HOLIDAY HIGHLIGHTS

2009-12-30T13:22:00.001-08:00

Wow! What a first holiday season C & D had! From a Chanukah gift filled evening at Mimi & Grandpa's, to an early Christmas dinner at Uncle Andy & Aunt Leah's house with lots of delicious homemade Italian food, and then a trip to Austin TX for a WHOLE lot of Christmas lovin'!

LET THE SLIDESHOW BEGIN . . .

** The Whole Gang Christmas 2009 **

** Nonna laughing at Carson, Carson laughing at Carson **

** Carson and Teddy bonding **

** Dean helping Bruce get fed **

**Dean could not take his eyes off of T-Pop's hat, so T-Pop bought him his own and Dean did not mind for 1 second having a baseball hat on! Such a big boy! **

** We love our Nonna & T-Pop!! **

** Santa found them in Austin! **

** A Dean Sandwich **

** That's one good looking family **

** Christmas was so special as Carson and Dean met their Uncle Anthony & Aunt Courtney! They always love seeing their Aunt Whitney. For some reason this year, Carson would just look at her and start laughing!! **

** Carson entertained us at Mimi & Grandpa's house with loads of belly laughs **

** Playing with Mimi **

** Hanging with family at Uncle Andy & Aunt Leah's. They loved their SuperStar present from them (for more pictures on this evening check out Leah's blog: allthingsconsideredmargulies.blogspot.com) **

Other fun notes: They received their 1st pair of Cowboy and Cowgirl boots for Christmas from Aunt Whitney, and some hand-painted art of Dr. Seuss to go in their bathroom from Aunt Courtney! Nonna & T-Pop took them to the park and on the swing sets and babysat several times so Mommy & Daddy could hang with the big kids. We loved seeing Gran, the Rogers clan, and all of the Steiner crew! Overall, a great Christmas!!

Our 1st Chanukah

2009-12-19T06:28:00.000-08:00

Instead of eight nights of presents, Carson and Dean got 3. We figured Mimi & Grandpa could do the rest of the spoiling. We got them new Sleep Sacks (Carson looks like she just won the lottery), mittens, and an alphabet puzzle foam mat that takes up their entire playroom floor. Like last year, Meurice enjoyed his dradle cookie! Here are all of the children enjoying their gifts.

Santa Babies

2009-12-18T14:59:00.000-08:00

Carson & Dean meet Santa Claus! Carson thought hard about what she wanted to tell Santa. She rattled off her list for him, while Dean did not take his eyes off of Me and Daddy!

We've been busy . . .

2009-12-09T10:35:00.000-08:00

Last Thursday Eric left for AZ, for a work trip - - - and came back Sunday evening. 4 full days with the babies by myself, what was I going to do? I knew the days would be crazy, but after they go to bed at 7pm, I figured I'd get laundry done, maybe a Oprah tivo or two, and some holiday decorating. Well, that all changed, and we were busy!!!!

Thursday: My cousin Ronnie, whom I haven't seen since my brother's wedding last October was in Raleigh for business. He stopped by that evening for dinner / wine and had a chance to peek in on the little ones sleeping. It was great to see him and was glad he was able to visit and "see" the babies. I hope his work brings him back to Raleigh more often!

Friday: Mimi came over that evening to help with bath and bedtime. I also recruited Eric's cousin Alisha to come over too and help us decorate the Christmas Tree. (My Jewish family members are such troopers, aren't they?!!!) After dinner and chatting we finally got around to the Christmas Tree around 9:30 pm. Thanks for your help ladies!

Saturday: Our good friend Lillian drove up from Charlotte. The second she got here, I ditched her and the kids and ran to the grocery, and ran back to squeeze in a quick shower. We made dinner, watched a movie, and I put Lillian to work with the kids. She helped with feedings and bath time. Thanks Lillian!

Sunday: After Lillian drove off, I took C & D downtown to pick up Ashley & Noah (our college friends from Chicago) who were in town visiting for a wedding. They came home, ate brunch with us, and hung with the kids (and Meurice) and witnessed the chaos that occurs with a mom home alone with two 8 month old babies and a dog. (I hope they still intend on having kids in the future! :)

Moral of the story - - we had great visitors while Daddy was gone, but because Mommy was such a crazy lunatic by herself, she did not take one picture with ANY of these people and Carson and Dean!!!!! Figures, right? I do have a picture of Alisha & Mimi with the Christmas Tree.

*please note, you are not viewing the Christmas tree incorrectly. It is indeed blocking our closet door. After inheriting the necessary equipment that comes with children -- exersaucers and swings - - we are lucky the Christmas Tree isn't sitting on our kitchen table!!!

December 5th - - WE ARE 8 MONTHS OLD

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Holiday Road

2009-12-02T11:38:00.000-08:00

Friday morning after Thanksgiving we headed to HOTlanta to visit close family friends. We left at 5:30 am and were there by 1:30 pm. There was very little traffic, so that was nice. Carson and Dean did great in the car, at one point I did climb in back and spoon feed them carrots and bananas to help pass the time. I have to admit I was quite proud of myself for that one. We love you Negrin, Rosenthal, Strongin, Galanti, Calabro, Hamlen, and Bear families!!!! Thank you for loving on our babies for the weekend. We can't wait to see you all up in Raleigh SOOOONNNN PLEASEEEEE!!!

** Carson, Mere, & Elmo **

** I put my hands up they're playing my song the butterflies fly away . . . . . . PARTY IN THE USA ** (believe it)

** Our Modern Family **

** Dean & Lil **

Gobble Gobble Goo & Gobble Gobble Giggle

2009-12-01T09:03:00.001-08:00

Thanksgiving 2009!

Carson and Dean enjoyed spending a few hours with family over Thanksgiving. They had fun visiting with everyone and playing with their cousins. They even decided to nap during lunch to give us a few minutes to eat. Very nice of them! They enjoyed their first Thanksgiving and look forward to when they can dig on in!

Highlight of the day . . . . Carson topping off the afternoon by pooping in her pretty party dress. Lovely.

Eric & I couldn't be more thankful for our beautiful family. Carson and Dean, we love you!

Hotty Toddy!

2009-11-23T17:16:00.000-08:00

This one's for you Aunt Nut!

My younger sister, Whitney, graduated from University of Mississippi, and her and my parents are big Ole Miss fans. Nonna & T-Pop bought the kids some Rebel outfits when they were down there for a game a month ago. Here they are cheering on Ole Miss beat LSU!

Happy BELATED Birthday Daddy!

2009-11-21T09:03:00.000-08:00

Eric's birthday was November 12 - - - so this post is over-due! We had a nice celebration at home with Carson and Dean. They baked him a cake and whipped up enchiladas for dinner. They are so good to their Daddy!

If you thought the swings were too much excitement for one weekend, then watch out . . .

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because we also took the kids to their first gym class!!!!!!

(she was DONE at this point -- WAY TOO MUCH FUN)!!!

Wee!!! Wee!!!

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Carson Belle's first time on a swing-set. She loved it!

Dean was a little unsure at first, but he got into it. It was a gorgeous day outside - -they had such a good time at the park. (Of course, Meurice was there to get in on a little swing-set action)!

IT'S COLD OUT HERE

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THERE MUST BE DEAN AND CARSON IN THE ATMOSPHERE!

7 months . . . and 7 days

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- - BIG BOY - -

- - BIG GIRL - -

- - "I bet I can destroy this" - -

- -"yup, I can"

The babies turned 7 months on April 5th, and to celebrate . . .Eric & I went to NYC! Actually, that was just a coincidence. My parents flew in to watch the babies and we headed to NYC for a long weekend of shopping, eating, seeing friends, and celebrating Justin & Cassie's wedding. It was weird / hard to leave C & D, but at 7 months, definitely time. It never would have been possible without all grandparents chipping in. THANK YOU!! My parents even loaded the babies up and took them to the DR to receive their H1N1 vaccine. Of course, that HAD to ONLY be available when we were gone. Anyways - - biggest 7 month milestone -- they are on the floor rocking their butts ready to crawl. They are thisclose. I think their "crawling" truly reflects their personalities. Dean is very methodical and looks like he is really thinking, "if I just put my knee here, my hand there, then I may be able to do this". Carson, on the other hand, kicks her arms and legs as hard and as fast as she can and shrieks / whines because she hasn't crawled out the front door. I imagine her thinking "JUST GET ME THERE - WHY ISN'T THIS WORKING".

Oh, any day now, our world will be turned upside down!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

2009-11-01T05:27:00.000-08:00

We had a great Halloween day and night with the kids yesterday. We even dressed Meurice up as the BIG BROTHER! Even though Carson and Dean aren't at the age of trick o' treating, we still took part in dressing them up! Eric and I had some neighbors over ( all of us celebrating our 1st Halloween with our children ) before the neighborhood kicked off a Halloween Parade. The kiddos were all SO CUTE! Carson held strong as the only girl --- dressed as a peacock! It was hilarious - - the costume was HUGE! I am convinced she could have won some costume contest had we entered her in one. As you can tell, she enjoyed playing dress up. Dean was our sweet little monkey! He was so tired and was a quiet, patient little boy all dressed up. In the future I hope for more crisp, fall like weather. It was very warm outside, I was worried that our children were going to melt in these costumes.

Hey, it's all about the picture!

TWO million dollar smiles

2009-10-30T07:49:00.000-07:00

MAKES MY HEART MELT......

Happy Birthday Nonna . . .

2009-10-30T05:54:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was Nonna's birthday. We had a chance to celebrate with her early when we were in TX last week. Here was the spectacular gift that Carson and Dean got her. Let's just hope they don't inherit my artistic genes . . . because I have none.

Bagels and Babies

2009-10-30T05:42:00.001-07:00

Last Sunday Mimi and Grandpa hosted a little gathering at their house to introduce Carson and Dean to some of their friends. It was a quick 2 hours and Carson and Dean enjoyed all of the attention. Mimi put on a great spread with bagels, lox, fruit, and hot apple cider. Thank you everyone for coming. For the past 7 months you have inquired about Carson and Dean, supplied us with meals, and given adorable gifts for the babies. We certainly appreciate it!

We Like To Share . . . for now anyways

2009-10-23T11:34:00.000-07:00

We're off to see Nonna & T-Pop

2009-10-22T05:41:00.001-07:00

We just returned from 5 days of fun in Austin. The babies visited family, went to the golf club for a cocktail, celebrated Nonna's birthday, read books with Aunt Nut, and got some belly lovin from T-Pop. Nonna & T-Pop have tons of toys for Carson & Dean to play with. They even created a nursery for them. Check out the mural that Nonna painted! Gran and Spike & Colleen helped Nonna & T-Pop babysit while Eric & I enjoyed a night out with Whitney. We even got some time to hit some golf balls together one morning. The babies are still terrific travelers. They were great on the plane and even hung out well in the airport. They gave many a smiles out to random strangers . . .great! Overall, a wonderful trip!

SIX MONTHS OLD!!!!

2009-10-09T03:54:00.000-07:00

Carson & Dean are 6 months old! Who can believe it? Time absolutely flies! It is hard to imagine that 6 months ago, after 12 longggggg days in the hospital, we would welcome these tiny little babies 10 weeks early, and then stand by their side while they got big and strong in the NICU for another 6 weeks. All of that seems like a complete blur. Now, they are laughing, moving, and just full of life and energy. And after their 6 month check-up yesterday, completely healthy!

Carson - weighed in at 14 lbs 8 oz
Dean - weighed in at 16 lbs

Dean was also a full inch longer than Carson. They are on the growth chart for all 3 areas - head, length, and weight. Small facts, but fun for Eric and I to see as parents. Oh, and of course, the dreaded shots (3 a piece)!

Here they are having fun in the tub at 6 months old!!!!

A day at the pumpkin patch

2009-10-04T18:56:00.000-07:00

We had such a fun day (and great weather) when we took the kids to a PUMPKIN PATCH today! Our friends Nicole and Pete joined us with their twins Blake and Cole. We came home with 2 tired babies, 4 pumpkins, and some really great pictures. The babies are obviously too young for all this farm had to offer, but we look forward to returning in the future. There were hay rides, corn mazes, animals, food, etc. We capped the evening off introducing Carson and Dean to sweet potatoes and to bath time. I don't feel like they are ever going to take to this food gig -- but they certainly didn't mind playing with it! They were all smiles....

My Little Pumpkins

2009-10-03T10:02:00.000-07:00

Carson and Dean kicking off October!

Welcome To The Club

2009-09-28T18:33:00.000-07:00

Baby Leila is here! Congratulations to Pete & Dana!

I took Carson & Dean to meet my friend Dana's new daughter last Thursday. She is adorable -- with a head full of hair! My friend Emily also came with her son Jacob. We had a car-seat playdate! I am sure one day this picture will be of 4 children running around, crying, laughing, fighting, and making a mess!!! For now, they were just relaxing and taking it all in.

Rosh Hashanah - 2009

2009-09-28T18:26:00.000-07:00

The Margulies family all got together for lunch at Mimi & Grandpa Howard's house on Saturday. Tonight we broke the fast for Yom Kippur at Aunt Leah & Uncle Andy's house. Happy New Year!

Aren't We Stylin' . . .

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IN OUR BLUE JEANS!

AND LOVING ON OUR MOMMY & DADDY!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRAN!

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Love,

Lauren, Eric, Carson and Dean

The Latest and Greatest

2009-09-15T12:26:00.000-07:00

Carson and Dean have been incredibly busy!

Let's see, first off as bragging parents, they are sleeping from 8 - 830pm to 7am. AMAZING!!! They also have enjoyed spending time with their nanny, Natalie, who is great with them, while Mommy and Daddy work. BUT - - I am now working part-time!!!!!!! Starting this week, I work 2.5 days, so I feel like I am getting the BEST of both worlds. Back to the babies, they are getting so loud. They have found their voices! Carson just squeals and lets off high pitch noises just because. It is very funny to watch. They also lay in their cribs and make all kinds of cooing - - fun to hear in the morning. We attended a BBQ on Saturday that our fertility physicians held. Their were a whole lot of multiples! It was terrific to see the physicians who were responsible for the miraculous lives of Carson and Dean. Sunday, we had lunch with a couple we met in the NICU. Their twin boys were born 2 hours before C & D. They were 31 weeks gestation at birth. Eric & I became good friends with the parents throughout our 6 weeks in the hospital. It was awesome visiting with them and seeing their boys, Zach & Ryan. Everyone could not believe two sets of twins, let alone twins born on the same day!

This weekend is Rosh Hashannah and while they will not be attending services, they have some cute outfits for the luncheon afterwards!

Next project, HALLOWEEN!

GREEK LIFE

2009-09-07T14:18:00.001-07:00

Carson and Dean's playroom is upstairs in our bonus room. There we have their tummy time mats, toys, bumbos, boppy's etc. We use this blanket as their play mate. It consists of all of our old IU sorority / fraternity t-shirts and some from my bachelorette / bride-to-be days. I had it made for Eric on Valentine's Day, of this past year, as a gift from the babies before they were born. Nothing funnier than two sweet babies laying next to things that say "Drink Til She's Cute" or "Tri-Delt Mullet Bar Crawl". If only they knew of our good ole days!

First Cereal

2009-09-02T18:45:00.001-07:00

Next phase - - cereal! We have introduced rice and oatmeal cereal to Carson and Dean. They are not too too interested in it yet, just getting them some good practice. Its priceless to watch. Carson, not a fan. Dean, bring it on!

Like I said, not interested!

Our new table arrangement . . .

"Carson, you gonna eat that?"

Our messy man

Nonna was in town

2009-08-30T12:33:00.000-07:00

and during her time here we did lots! We played, went shopping for new clothes, and went out to dinner for Alisha's birthday! T-Pop better come next time Nonna comes! Check us out! We are 21 weeks today!

Back to School

2009-08-23T12:25:00.001-07:00

Tomorrow is August 24th and I go back to work. I CANNOT believe how fast 5 months has gone by. Like every mother who has to go through this, I am sad, its tough. What an adjustment to not be with them every minute of every day. My mom is here to help us out this week and then we've hired a nanny. I refuse to get overwhelmed and upset. I instead plan to just take it one day at a time. We shall see. Carson, Dean, and I talked about it and they are on board. They are really very laid back about the whole thing, thanks babies!

Daddy's Little Girl

2009-08-17T07:08:00.000-07:00

Our Friday nights have changed drastically since pregnancy and babies! Here are Daddy and Carson dancing to some Country Music last Friday night!

Starbucks Play Date

2009-08-15T13:13:00.000-07:00

Carson & Dean had a play date with my friend Emily's son Jacob, who is just a few weeks younger. Emily and I try to have a sip coffee, catch up "mommy" play date. It was so great for us to finally get together and introduce our youngsters to each other! As if Emily doesn't have her hands full with her own son, she still bought my coffee and bottle fed Carson! Thanks Emily! I look forward to more get togethers!

*PLEASE NOTE that my two fussed over half the time we were here because they were hungry and needed to be fed. But of course we took the picture the last 2 minutes just when Jacob started to get fussy. Sorry Jacob!

Table for 11

2009-08-14T05:55:00.000-07:00

Once a week I meet up with two of my girlfriends and their children. Nicole has twin boys, Blake & Cole, they are 2 weeks older than Carson & Dean. Astrid has her son Cole who is 8 months old. We take over innocent restaurants and cause quite the scene! This past Saturday we decided to get together for dinner - -husbands too! After a wonderful dinner from Astrid & Jason - with everyone of us holding a baby while eating - we lined all the babies up on the couch for a group photo. Here's the sequence of events - -

Both Cole's are NOT interested! Blake and Carson are chillin and our man Dean is out!

Brother and Sister

The 3 lone couch survivors

First Love! Blake making his move on Carson - - her sound asleep brother wasn't the bodyguard he should have been!

P is for Pumpkin, Q is for Queen

2009-08-14T05:50:00.001-07:00

Trip # 2

2009-08-09T18:37:00.000-07:00

Carson & Dean completed their second airplane trip last weekend when we all flew to Chicago for our friends Zach & Leslie's wedding. Throughout the pregnancy we had originally thought that Eric would go alone, assuming the babies would still be quite young. Well - - they were just at 4 months and did terrific. It was well worth it! We saw so many of our friends that we don't get to see but once every year or longer. We are so glad they got to meet many of our friends. Carson & Dean love their AEPi uncles!

Here are just a few pictures of many! ** And a special thank you to Bob, Patty, & Val for babysitting!!!!**

MR. & MRS. HIRSCHFELD

My dear friend Taylor's daughter, Lily, after her very first steps!!

Lily's big bro Hudson

MIKE

EVAN

LOU

THE O'NEILLS

AMY

DANIEL (eric's first love) & ABBY

The Groom ZACH and SETH (who nicknamed Dean "Dean-a-reno" and it stuck)

4 month check-up

2009-08-06T11:22:00.000-07:00

I'll type fast since they are both still asleep in their car seats after their DR appt and lunch with daddy.

Carson - 11lbs 1 ounce - - 23 inches long

Dean - 12lbs 1 ounce -- 23 3/4 inches long

The very exciting news . . . they are ON THE GROWTH CHART! Both of them, for weight, height, and head circumference. They are right around the 5th percentile for weight. Both of their overall growth has been stupendous, the DR was pleased. We are going to pass on introducing rice cereal for a little bit. I am not interested yet! We are however going to start breaking out the exersaucer and bumbos and see what these babies can do.

They received their shots and screamed and cried. Broke my heart. Good thing Daddy was there. Now we are home to rest for the afternoon and to enjoy our baby tylenol.

We have a milestone!

2009-08-06T05:01:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, August 5th, Carson ROLLED OVER!

Of course, I've had them on their mats for a good amount of time each day and they have been so close. Last night, after Eric and I gave them their baths, we put them down in the bonus room to give them a little activity before their last bottle and bedtime. As I get up (my back to Carson) to go downstairs to get some water she rolled over!!! Eric saw the whole thing and screamed at me to turn around. Just as I turned around, she was on her back. I missed it!!! However, she quickly did it a second time. Then, Eric grabbed the video camera to capture the third time and nothing. She held back on us. I am going to try and capture it this morning. This afternoon they have their 4 month check-up which means more shots, so she will not be up to it then. Yay Carson! ( and yay mommy, I already wrote it in the baby book )!

Smiley Face

2009-08-04T15:04:00.000-07:00

Manicure & Pedicure NEEDED!!!

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So, Mimi is coming over this afternoon to spend time with her grandchildren while I get beautified!

HERE ARE THE FACTS

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1. Carson was born with a prenatal tooth
2. Carson & Dean have no immediate first cousins . . .YET
3. They are on different formulas
4. They received a Radio Flyer wagon as a gift and we don't know who it's from???????!!!!
5. They have been to Austin, the Orlando airport (that counts), Myrtle Beach, and are headed to Chicago this weekend. ALOT in their 16 weeks of life!
6. Their mommy goes back to work August 24th and is VERY, VERY unhappy about this. We've hired a nanny to care for them while we are at work.
7. Carson & Dean have 2 great-grandparents, 4 grandparents, 2 parents, 2 uncles, 3 aunts, and 1 older dog brother
8. They've been swimming.
9. A few times a week we go walking or to the gym with our friend Nicole and her twin sons, Blake & Cole, who are 2 weeks older. We look like a circus traveling with both of our double strollers!
10. Daddy nicknamed Carson "Happy Hands" because her hands are always flying around everywhere!
11. They cannot wait to meet their Uncle Anthony and Aunt Courtney.
12. Carson is going to be the first women president.
13. Carson & Dean both have blue eyes
14. Dean is a smiley baby - - loving lights, ceiling fans, and the mobile on his swing
15. Carson has a herniated belly button
16. They were 10 weeks premature -- born at 30 weeks and 1 day
17. Carson was BABY A throughout the pregnancy, Dean was BABY B
18. Dean Jennings will NEVER be a D.J. - - don't ever call him that
19. Meurice love tummy time with the babies
20. Carson & Dean's Dr. Seuss's ONE FISH, TWO FISH bathroom is in need of some artwork
21. They have their first pair of blue jeans washed and ready to go
22. "No, they are not identical" (FYI - BOY & GIRL twins cannot be identical, please spread the word)
23. Dean has reflux
24. Carson & Dean still do not really care, recognize, or react to each other yet. We are waiting . . .
25. They are 2 miracles

To The Preemie Moms - - -

2009-07-26T18:07:00.000-07:00

A co-worker of mine who has triplet 1 year olds delivered when she was around 28 weeks along. Like us, her and her family experienced the ups and downs of the NICU and the emotional roller coaster ride of having premature babies. She sent this along and it helps to remind me how strong I was and am.

Did you ever wonder how the mothers of premature babies are chosen?
Somehow, I visualize God hovering over Earth, selecting his
instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he
observes, he instructs his angels to take notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son. Patron Saint, Matthew.
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter. Patron Saint, Celia.
Rutledge, Carrie, twins. Patron Saint...give her Gerard. He's used to
profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles.
"Give her a preemie." The angel is curious. "Why this one, God?
She's so happy."
"Exactly," smiles God.
"Could I give a premature baby a mother who knows no laughter? That
would be cruel."
"But does she have the patience?" asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she'll drown in a sea
of self-pity and despair.
Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.
I watched her today. She has that sense of self and independence so
rare and so necessary in a mother.
You see, the child I'm going to give her has a world of its own.
She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."
"But Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. "No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect She has
just the right amount of selfishness."
The angel gasps, "Selfishness?! Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally,
she will never survive.
Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect.
She doesn't know it yet, but she is to be envied.
She will never take for granted a spoken word.
She will never consider a step ordinary.
When her child says momma for the first time,
she will be witness to a miracle and know it.
I will permit her to see clearly the things I see--
ignorance, cruelty, prejudice--
and allow her to rise above them.
She will never be alone.
I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life
because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
"And what about her Patron Saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in
the air.
God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

Wake County Human Services

2009-07-22T04:58:00.000-07:00

Since Carson and Dean were born < 32 weeks gestations and under 1500 grams they qualify for free services to help with their development. We figured since it was free, why not. Every 2 - 3 months we'll have a registered nurse come to our home to assess where they are at and if they need any further medical attention to assist with any area of development ( speech, etc ) they can assist us. Yesterday was the first visit and was really just introductory. Truthfully, Carson & Dean are doing tremendous. They are over 3 months old, however, they are considered only 1 1/2 months old based on their due date. However, the actions and behaviors that they are currently doing, are more in sync with a 2-3 month old. We do tummy time, they are great with lifting and turning their heads, loving their tongues, and reaching for things. So, already, great signs. The nurse did have a scale with her so we weighed the babies. Dean came in at 11 lbs 5 ounces and Carson 10 lbs 5 ounces. They are getting big!

Now that we are home . . .

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WE HAD FUN - - BUT WE ARE TIRED!!

One fish, Two fish

2009-07-18T13:17:00.000-07:00

It was over 100 degrees, so Aunt Nut and I took the babies swimming!

Alot of LOVE

2009-07-18T13:02:00.000-07:00

Here's some family we spent time with - - unfortunately we didn't get pictures with everyone. Saturday night my Gran hosted a birthday party for Spike, Les, and me. We enjoyed seeing everyone!

NONNA

T-POP

GREAT UNCLE SPIKE

GRAN

GREAT AUNT COLLEEN

COUSIN BLAKE

Airplane!

2009-07-18T12:49:00.000-07:00

Here are pictures from our flight to Austion THRU Orlando!

* They thought we needed lids on our cups because our hands were full! Not a bad idea

* Carson needed to stretch out.

* Margulies Family of Four

Where Have We Been????

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IN AUSTIN, TX!

We are on day 7 of our trip to Austin to visit T-pop, Nonna, Aunt Nut, Gran, and Great Aunts, Great Uncles, cousins, and neighbors that Carson & Dean haven't met yet. There hasn't been ONE day cooler than 100 degrees! The babies did such a FANTASTIC job traveling down here with Eric & I. There isn't a direct flight, so we had to connect thru Orlando. They were quite the hit in the airports and on the airplanes! But, as I suspected, nobody sat next to us! (which was a good thing, because we needed that 3rd seat)! Since being in Austin the babies have adjusted well and haven't had a problem sleeping or anything (they are sharing a pack n play). Nonna borrowed LOTS of equipment from the neighbors, which is great. There are 2 swings, 1 bouncy seat, and 1 pappasan chair. So, the babies are completley entertained. They have also been exposed to Archie & Brady their dog uncles (a boxer and viszla). They are starting to get used to their loud barks that Meurice doesn't have! Since it is SO HOT we took the babies swimming. THEY LOVED IT! The pool water is like bath water since its so hot, so they were comfortable and really relaxed in the water. Daddy had to leave on Sunday to go back home to work so Nonna has been doing all the middle of the night feeds with me and Aunt Nut is flying back with us on Friday. Some updates on the babies - - Dean is over 11 lbs (feels like 21 lbs) and Carson is probably under 10 lbs. They are hilarious now. They laugh and smile at everything, which melts my heart EVERY SINGLE TIME. I love it!!! Dean has been intentionally smiling for a couple of weeks now and Carson has just started doing that. She stares hard at you and then will bust into a full smile. Last night and the night before they have given us 5 hour stretches in the middle of the night. Let me tell you, 5 hours is like 5 years. It's amazing! The babies have also gotten some new clothes, some great baby gifts, and have had their fair share of margaritas! MOMMY TOO!!

I have many, many pictures that I will upload when I get home. I can't wait to share them all.

Hope everyone is well!!

PS - Emily & Jason, CONGRATS on Jacob's arrival home!!! We cannot wait to meet him!

4th of July

2009-07-05T14:49:00.000-07:00

With 13 week old twins we are starting to realize that holidays aren't a huge deal, because we hardly see them coming! We barely even knew it was a holiday until that day when we were invited to a casual neighborhood BBQ. So, bad mommy that I am, I hadn't specifically bought anything "special" for them to wear. But, really? Does it matter? These babies are growing at the speed of light and have many clothes they wear a handful of times before they simply outgrow them. So, Dean sported a Navy Blue Polo onesie and Carson a navy blue jumper with white polka dots and a splash of pink (close to red, right?) PINK, white, and blue! (Nope, no pictures! Maybe next year!)

We are off to Austin, TX to visit my family on WED July 8th. I can promise you we'll have pictures. If not of Carson & Dean, then of Eric & I proving that we survived the airport. Good luck to us!!

Night, Night

2009-07-05T14:45:00.000-07:00

July 3rd marked a milestone for the twins - - they slept in their own cribs! Eric & I have really enjoyed them in the same crib, but they are outgrowing the side by side set up. We'd come in to find them a little too "squished" up against the crib since they were laying side by side. They are just becoming too long. So, I changed the sheets and got both cribs all situated and each baby went to his / her respected crib. They are nice and comfy and seem to not be missing each other yet!

We are family

2009-06-17T14:16:00.000-07:00

Our Team Is Red Hot ....

2009-06-17T14:10:00.001-07:00

Our team is red hot
Our team is R - E - D
RED
H - O - T
HOT
Once we start we can't be stopped
Our team is red hot!!!

Check out our outfits! PS.... Dean is really starting to break away from Carson in terms of weight gain. I was SO curious today (WED) that I took them to a friend's house to weigh them. Dean is 9lbs and Carson is 8.1bs - - he's a whole pound heavier!!!

"Due Date Day" DATE

2009-06-17T14:03:00.001-07:00

If you can believe it - - my official due date was June 13th, this past Saturday. The babies were 10 weeks old!! Eric & I decided we needed to mark the occassion. First, we looked at the babies all day and kept saying, "there is NO way we could imagine them still in the belly"! Mind blowing! Second, Eric & I ditched the babies for a night out! J/K! My mom and Whitney graciously offered to babysit so we had our first, official date. It was so nice to put on a little makeup and go out for a nice glass of wine. We had a great time.

Nonna and Aunt Nut in the house - - -

2009-06-17T13:55:00.001-07:00

The babies have visitors - - Nonna & Aunt Whitney. For me, this means, I've been able to take showers longer than 30 seconds and earlier than 7pm at night when Eric gets home. My mom has cooked and done the laundry. Whitney has been a natural helping me with all the feedings and changing diapers. Carson & Dean are having a blast!

- Please note Carson's socks and hair bow. A girl can never have enough accessories!

- What a handful!

Tummy Time

2009-06-17T13:50:00.000-07:00

Who's better - - Meurice or Carson?? Hilarious! He treated her like she was his. He was being very sweet.

Picture Pages

2009-06-04T16:49:00.001-07:00

For all the curious people who've asked me 100 hundred times -- HOW DO YOU FEED TWO AT THE SAME TIME??? I am no longer nursing. Having preemies it is so important to know exactly how much they are getting at each feeding to ensure weight gain. So, this is how we bottle feed each and every day when Daddy is at work! Works like a charm.

Daddy & Carson watching TV (either golf or some ridiculous reality show, like Gene Simmons Family jewels or Girls Next Door, I'm sure)

Carson on her first night out to dinner - - she had onion rings.

Dean on his first night out to dinner - - he had nachos. (Their adorable burp cloths are from the Ead's -- so cute)!

Carson & Dean in their new chairs (courtesy of the Rousso's - - we LOVE them).
** You know you are a new parent when you find yourself "propping" the babies up on anything around the house for a cute picture!

Check-up

2009-06-04T09:35:00.001-07:00

The babies are 8 1/2 weeks and had their 2 month check up today.

DRUM ROLL PLEASE . . . . . .

Dean weighs 7lbs 4oz and is 20 inches long

Carson weighs 7lbs and is 18 inches long

Dean has taken the lead (he also has the first case of baby acne, bless his heart)!

They are doing great and everything is right on track. Pretty much for the first 2 years of their lives they will need to go by their due date (JUNE 13th - - we're still not there yet -- ha!) for considerable milestones (walking, talking, crawling etc). However, for vaccines, you go by actual birth date. Today they received their 2 month vaccines. It is heart wrenching to watch your children scream when getting a shot. I hated it for them. We are now home and they are worn out and sleeping peacefully (hence my time on the computer). As we all know, vaccines have become increasingly controversial. My take, all you can do it trust the system, and close your eyes! They need to be vaccinated.

My NEW Everyday

2009-05-24T18:28:00.000-07:00

New Sheriff In Town

2009-05-24T14:53:00.000-07:00

Eric is no longer the "man of the house". Eric, Carson & myself are at the mercy of this little man . . . DEAN! He is a little too spoiled and we are all falling for it!